I once asked a favorite writer of mine, April Henry, how she knew when her project was done.
“It’s due,” she said.
I struggled with this one for my ebook “Merry is Optional” because given that I’m writing in the margins of real life, the material I’m ending with isn’t everything I had in mind for this project. Because a constant theme in my writing is encouraging others to let go of what is or isn’t going as planned and embrace what is. So, that’s happening and it’s time.
This way, I’ll get good feedback from my dear reader friends and can put out an even better second edition. Later. Like, next year.
I’m ready for it to be done.
We’re all ready.
It’s at the point where balance has tipped in favor of meeting my drop-dead deadline (you know there’s stages, right? This is the One That Can’t Be Missed).
As a result of all the extra minutes going into this final push, we put our shoes on to cross the kitchen floor because … ew. And also because no one else seems to know how to push a broom without being asked.
The boys heard the cast iron pan moving around on the stove this morning and came running: “She’s making breakfast!”
But actually I was just moving stuff out of the way to make coffee.
They were cool about their disappointment at another cold breakfast, dude – that’s more than some kids ever get.
“I know. But some kids get sausage, you know?” Says the older one. “How about just a warm egg, Mama?” Says the younger one.
Since, it’s been a few days of cereal and/or pepperoni and grapes for breakfast, I threw some oil, eggs and bread in the pan for peekaboo eggs and won the morning. (Pro tip: you too can do the bare minimum which then makes something super simple seem brilliant. You’re welcome).
Speaking of which, the stuff marked in the corner in blue on the screen shot from my Scrivener program has to be done today yet.
Some time between picking up the boys, soccer practice, end of the year soccer party and wrestling practice, bed time routine and I’m actually still hopeful I can squeeze in one more Sons of Anarchy episode because I got a little bit addicted. I can’t explain how that happened. (For the record, we aren’t usually that all over the place but this one week, things overlapped. Because of course they did).
But it’ll get done. As I recently wrote in a job application, deadlines are my love language.
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Nathalie Hardy recently published her first book, “Raising the Hardy Boys: They Said There Would Be Bon-Bons” available at local bookstores and online. Hardy writes in the margins of her life with two little boys and a husband who understands deadlines come before dusting. To contact her, visit www.nathaliesnotes.com.